Saturday, July 12, 2008

Sorry!

Hey all! Im soo sorry that I haven't written on my blog in a while! God has put this on my heart to say so im gonna say it. This may sound really sad, but go with me on it. They just recently put the disney channel on my cable at the apartment and I definitely have been watching it (What can I say I am a total kid at heart!) Ok.. so is it just me or does the whole having a relationship to be happy trip that our country is on is applying to the younger set. I mean it seems like every movie and show on Disney has a relationship in it. Even Zach and Cody from the suite life of Zach and Cody have girlfriends and these kids are like twelve. Somehow this hasn't made sense to me at all. Does it to you?? God has been teaching me alot about relationships since I have been in college. I may not have alot of experience, but I have learned from friends and from God about them. Anyways... one thing that He has taught me is that He is the ONLY thing that I need to make me happy having a boyfriend won't change that. Don't get me wrong ( I know this sounds like the ranting of a bitter girl that needs a boyfriend) I think that relationships are a wonderful thing and I am not trying to nock it at all, but I think that our society is putting WAY too much pressure on young people on dating and relationships when they have no clue what they are all about or how to have one or be in one ( again I am NOT an expert on this issue im just stating how I feel). Maybe one thing that we ca do is to teach young boys and girls what CHRISTIAN dating is all about. This is something that has been on my heart for a while so.... if you have a brother or sister or just a young friend show them that having a relationship isn't everything God is everything. I encourage you if you are in a relationship to lead by example for our younger brothers and sisters.